Thursday, November 29, 2012

Recently Seperated/Divorced Dating After 30

I don't know what your situation is, but I am recently separated after a 15/16 year relationship, married for 8, with three kids, and 31 years of age.  I am at a point in my life where I just want to focus on my kids, myself, and just have some fun...I am not looking for a relationship, a new wife, a new babies mom; since I have a vasectomy, or a boo.  I am upfront with every new woman that I come in contact with, so why do they think they can change my mind after only a few times of kicking it?  I'm flattered that they would even consider being with me long term, but that just isn't what I am looking for.  I explain this to them from jump street. 

I prefer older women because I find that they don't like to play games and are straight to the point like myself, but for some reason they are in search of a husband.  So I try going for the ones within the mid 20's and apparently they are looking for a total package of husband and baby daddy.  Seems like I can't win, guess what they say is true its a hard knock life dating after 30 especially when you been off the market for so long.  Hopefully I can find a balance of someone looking for the same thing I am; a friend to kick it with from time to time, no strings attached, confidence, has her own spot as do I, can make me laugh, is upfront and understandable about what it is and how it is, and speaks their mind, no time for jealousy and a no nonsense woman that is a lady in the street and freak in the sheet.  I don't think that is too much to ask for....