Is it too late

Is it ever too late to reconcile?  No, it is never too late to reconcile in a relationship if that is truly what you want to do.  However, do not get discouraged if the other party is not willing to.  Although it takes two to make a relationship, often times it is said that if too much time passes and that person feels as though the relationship is over there maybe no time to reconcile the relationship but the friendship maybe a second option.  I'm sure most of you are saying hmmm he just contradicted himself, no I did not.  It is never to late to reconcile, although  you may get back together and make things work, but it takes two to do so.  If the other party decides he/she is not ready or is not willing to put the pieces back together you can still reconcile the friendship and part way's as friends or at least on good terms.

There has been too many bad break ups within the world because one person is unable to let go so they feel acting out and causing a scene whenever they see you out with a new spouse that you will see they have moved on but it just shows that they haven't.  if you both comes to grips that things have changed and communicate that so that everyone is on the same page and things are civil, then your life will be that much easier.

But if and when both parties are willing to work things out and communicate where they feel the relationship has gone south, then the better you can work at those mistakes and improve your relationship so that it can go to the next level.

Its the thought that counts

Setting the mood can be construed differently by person to person.  Some enjoy a smooth walk on the beach at sunset, a great time at diner with intellectual conversation, or even the extravagant over the top flying on a private jet to Paris for lunch.  What ever your mood setter is you have to do it with thought and care because things might not go your way.

For me I like to set the mood by lighting some candles, turning on some smooth slow jams like a classic Luther Vandross or Gerald Levert, massage oils, and some fruit, crackers, cheese and wine.  Put a lil deep Billy D base in my voice "Hey baby, come on over here and let daddy work on you because you had a long day" undress her slow and provide gentle kisses up and down her spine lay her down across the bed and begin working my magic by caressing every inch of her body.  Slowly feeding her in between her massage.  And well you know what happens when you get a bursting sensation in your mouth, its an aphrodisiac, and some slow songs after you worked her body over with the strength of your finger tips.

All I am saying is it doesn't have to be expensive or seem corny as long as you put some thought into it and take your time.  She will be so grateful and she might even ask you for another "Refill!"

Ambassador Program: Get Devonte to DC

 We are asking for you assistance with raising money for our oldest son Devonte.  He was nominated into the People to People Leadership Ambassador Programs 2013.  He has worked very hard over the years to be recognized by his teacher for this great opportunity.   He truly deserves it and I hope you all can see it in your heart to help as much as you can.  Thank you in advance!

 

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Child placed into Washing Machine

By now I know most of you have heard about the child that was placed into the washing machine at a local laundromat.  Rumors were that it was the parents of the child that had done such an idiotic act, but in fact it was the fathers girlfriend and a friend of hers.  when the 1 year old was placed into the washing machine and the door closed, apparently it locked and began operating.  Luckily, the manager of the laundromat was able to unplug the machine and get the child to safety.  He has since been determined to be ok.

All I'm going to say is, if that was my child there would be no talking at all.  Yes it is excellent that the child made it out with no harm, but the fact of the matter is the girl didn't call the mother, when the mother asked her about it she denied it, and then she even took the child to the hospital and didn't notify the parents.  We would have been fighting from the door.  first of all don't lie to me about the safety of my child, secondly the mother didn't know that man so why is he even touching her child and playing around like that.  I don't know, it couldn't be me cause I don't trust everyone to watch my kids for stupidity like this.  Be more choosy of who watches your kids and if you can't find a babysitter that is reliable and trustworthy then your just going to have to stay at home and come up with a plan B.  Nothing is more important than the safety of your child.

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